18+ ABDL Discord • Cozy, trauma-aware & moderated
A soft little corner of the internet.
ABDLCircle is a comfy space for littles, middles, caregivers, switches, and soft-hearted nerds — powered by a custom Discord bot & dashboard that help staff keep things gentle, safe, and organized.
CircleBot helps staff handle tickets, logs, roles, and safety tools — so you and the other lovelies & cuties can focus on being soft, silly, and supported.
New or just joined? Start with the Welcome Guide for a gentle step-by-step on verification, roles, and soft-space channels.
Safety & Community First
- 18+ only, anti-minor, anti-harassment space.
- Clear guidelines for kink boundaries, consent, and comfort levels.
- Ticket, log, and moderation tools designed for gentle but firm staff support.
- Role menus for pronouns, identities, ABDL flavors, and DM preferences.
Important Disclaimers
ABDLCircle is an 18+ only community. We do not allow minors, content involving minors, or anything that sexualizes children or childhood.
This space is for consenting adults exploring regression, comfort, and kink-aware dynamics in a way that is trauma-informed, boundaries-respecting, and community-minded.
If you are in crisis or unsafe offline, please reach out to local professionals or hotlines. Online spaces are supportive, but they cannot replace real-world medical or mental health care.
What CircleBot & the dashboard can do for your server
Support Tickets
Private support channels for reports, questions, and staff help — with clear tracking so nothing gets lost in the scroll.
Role & Identity Menus
Pronouns, ABDL labels, friend roles, DM comfort levels, and more — all via tidy menus, buttons, and reaction-style flows.
Logs & Safety Tools
User joins, staff actions, voice activity, and more — surfaced in log channels for transparent, accountable moderation.
New or curious?
About the Community
Learn how ABDLCircle is structured as a soft-space: staff expectations, support channels, safety focus, and how tickets work.
Read the About page →What Is ABDL & Regression?
A gentle, non-clinical explainer of ABDL, age regression, caregivers, furries, and nearby spaces — written for anxious, curious adults.
Read the ABDL explainer →Who ABDLCircle is for
Littles, Middles & Regressors
Soft-space beans who use regression, diapers, pacis, stuffies, or cozy routines to feel safe, calm, and held — without being shamed for it.
Caregivers & Switches
Mommies, Daddies, sitters, CGs, padded switches, and gentle protectors who want a community that respects consent, boundaries, and emotional care.
Staff & Safety Nerds
Moderators, admins, and community caretakers who want tooling that supports trauma-aware decisions instead of chaotic “mod roulette.”
What we value here
Trauma-Aware Moderation
We aim for staff tools that notice patterns, not just single messages — so people are met with boundaries, context, and care instead of instant dogpiles.
Clear, Gentle Structure
Rules, tickets, and logs are here to keep everyone safe, not to scare people. We try to make expectations readable, consistent, and transparent.
Soft-Space First
Co-regulation, slow modes, and cozy corners matter as much as the tech. ABDLCircle is built for people whose nervous systems have been through a lot.