Rules • Safety • Soft Boundaries

🍪 ABDL Circle Rulebook 🧸

An 18+ regression & kink-friendly community built on kindness, consent, and trauma-aware care. This is your snuggle-safe guide to being a respectful, kind cutie in our space.

Every member is age-verified before entry — you’ll hold your ID next to your face in a clear, mugshot-style photo, with everything blocked out except your ID photo and date of birth. Staff perform a reverse-image check to make sure the photo is not reused or stolen. Once verified, the image is deleted and never stored. Verification can also be completed safely over video chat if you prefer.
You can cuddle up knowing the space is safe, soft, and 18+ secure. 💞

🧾 TL;DR

Be kind. Be adult. Get consent. Respect boundaries. Keep it cozy and full of positive vibes. 💗

♿ Accessibility & Inclusion

Everyone deserves to feel at home here. Discord has limits for accessibility, but we’ll always try to help — clearer text, calmer visuals, or described images when possible.

If you need support or adjustments, reach out to staff anytime. 💜

🌍 1. Everyone Is Loved Here

This is a space for every lovely, no matter your race, culture, or diaper size. All backgrounds, colors, and identities are beautiful.

🚫 Racism, xenophobia, or hate = permanent ban. No warnings, no chances.

🌈 2. Queer & Trans Cuties Deserve Joy

Whether you're a diapered enby, babbly trans girl, shy ace, or questioning bean — you are safe here.

✨ Genderplay, queer identity, and soft expression are all welcome.

🚫 Anti-LGBTQ+ behavior = instant plushie ejection.

🚫 3. Harassment Is Never Cute

No stalking, threats, sexual innuendo without consent, guilt-tripping, or ignoring “no.” That includes:

  • Creepy flirting
  • "Just teasing" with no permission
  • Invasive questions or dominance pushing

💥 You’ll be banned fast if you cross the line.

💬 If something feels off, tell staff — you won’t be blamed for speaking up.

🧸 4. Big Feelings Go in Big Feelings Spots

Sometimes squishy hearts need space to be sad or stormy — and that’s okay!

But please post triggering or trauma-heavy conversations in:

  • #cuddle-me-crisis🫂
  • #spicy-soggy-feels🌶️

If it’s derailing gentle spaces, staff will quietly guide it to the right channel. 💗

📮 5. Ask First, Cutie-Butt!

Not every lovely wants surprise messages in their inbox — even if they seem super sweet.

Before you send a DM or friend request:

  • 🧸 Check their roles
  • 💬 Ask in #ask-to-dm-and-friend-request-here

Uninvited messages — even a friendly “hi” — can make folks feel pressured. Keep our energy soft, not startling. 💌🍼

🔗 6. Sharing Stuff? Read This!

You’re welcome to share your creations and communities — from plushie shops to regression servers. 💞

You can post:

  • 🧸 Regression-friendly or kink-positive servers → #server-links
  • 🎨 Commissions, stores, or plushie shops → #commercial-ads
  • 📺 Streams, videos, or content → #streaming-video-ads
  • 🔥 NSFW/kink servers → only if clearly marked → #server-links

Your post must:

  • Follow Discord’s ToS (no underage, AI abuse, etc.)
  • Not involve minors
  • Not promote hate or discrimination
  • Be clearly labeled (e.g. “18+ — ABDL / CGL / Kink-Friendly Space”)
  • Include a soft intro — don’t just drop links

✏️ This isn’t Craigslist, cutie. We’re a diaper-friendly, kink-welcoming space — but still a home built on comfort and care. 💌

🧷 7. We’re a Standalone Blanket Fort

We don’t do partnerships or brand collabs. We’re proud to be a cozy, independent space. 🏝️

💞 8. Kink Is Welcome — With Consent, Cushioning, and Care

This is a kink-affirming space — for diaper lovers, soft doms, bratty littles, teasing CGs, and everyone in between.

Whether you're here for:

  • 🍼 Soft, non-kink regression
  • 🔥 Kinkier littlespace, CGL, or ABDL play

✨ You’re valid and welcome.

We keep things:

  • 💬 Soft in tone — unless staff need to step up to a firm or strict warning.
  • 📌 Channel-appropriate — adult spaces stay marked and respected.
  • 📍 Respectful of all boundaries — honor consent, pronouns, and comfort levels.

Okay:

  • Diapers, pacis, punishments, plushie protocol
  • Flirty teasing (with permission)
  • Roleplay (in proper spaces)

Not okay:

  • NSFW in public channels
  • Kink content without clear consent
  • Treating the space like a hookup app

Everyone’s idea of SFW or NSFW can differ — please use caution when viewing media or entering adult-marked channels. If something feels off or uncomfortable, you can always step away or let staff know. 💗
🌸 Your soft is valid. 🌶️ Your kink is valid. 💖 Your boundaries are valid.

🛡️ Safety & Trust

🧷 Verified & cared for by the ABDL Circle staff team — each verification image is checked and deleted immediately after review.

We confirm age through a mugshot-style photo holding your ID (with all personal details blocked out except your ID photo and date of birth) or through a short video chat — whichever feels safest for you. 💫

💬 If you ever feel unsafe or overwhelmed, reach out to staff or trusted friends — you deserve care and support.

The channels #cuddle-me-crisis🫂 and #spicy-soggy-feels🌶️ are safe places to talk things out. Each one has a pinned message with links to mental health and crisis services if you ever need extra help.

If you’re in immediate crisis, please also contact local resources or findahelpline.com for free 24/7 support.

🌟 Feedback & Updates

Rules may evolve as the space grows. Staff will always announce changes and listen to community feedback. 💗