Supporting ABDLCircle

This page is here for adults who want to support ABDLCircle and CircleBot — not because they “owe” the server anything, but because it genuinely helps keep the soft-space lights on.

Financial Support (Completely Optional)

Servers, bots, databases, and dev time take energy and real-world money. If — and only if — you’re in a place where it feels safe, you can choose to support the project financially.

When/if you’re ready, these buttons can point to actual support links. For now they’re just placeholders and don’t need to be live:

If you’re juggling rent, meds, food, or basic safety needs, please take care of you first. The community should never come before survival.

Supporting Without Spending Money

Some of the most valuable support doesn’t involve money at all. Things like:

  • Being kind and welcoming to new members.
  • Opening tickets early when something feels off, instead of carrying it alone.
  • Helping test new features or giving thoughtful feedback on tools and layouts.
  • Respecting boundaries, tags, and staff decisions — so the space stays safer for others.

All of that counts as “support” just as much as any donation.

No Guilt, No Obligation

You’ll never be expected to pay to belong here. ABDLCircle is a community for adults trying to exist, regress, heal, and be weird together — not a product you have to “earn your keep” in.

Whether you quietly lurk, send memes, offer cuddle-coded encouragement, or help cover server costs sometimes, you’re still one of our lovelies.