About ABDLCircle

Who We Are & Who This Is For

ABDLCircle grew from a small ABDL server into a broader community project: Discord, tools, guides, and cozy little “soft-space” corners all woven together. The community is primarily:

• Adult babies, littles, and middles who lean into small, cuddly, or melty energy.
• Diaper lovers who enjoy the comfort, practicality, or kink of diapers.
• Caregivers / mommies / daddies / sitters who like nurturing, comforting, and guiding.
• Switches and “just here for vibes” folks who slide between roles or don’t use labels.

We are openly neurodivergent-friendly, queer-friendly, and trauma-aware. Many members are navigating anxiety, CPTSD, DID/OSDD traits, depression, gender stuff, and general life chaos. You don’t have to be okay to be here. We also have room for age regression, CGL dynamics, and furry folks who overlap with ABDL — all within clear, 18+ only boundaries.

What Kind of Space Is This?

Think of ABDLCircle as a mix of cuddle corner, support hub, and nerd den:

• Soft-space channels for meltdown moments, emergency cuddles, and “my brain is soup.”
• ABDL & regression chats with clear tagging, boundaries, and content rules.
• Hangout spaces for games, art, crafts, tech, and everyday life rambling.
• Support-flavored channels where you can vent, decompress, or ask for gentle check-ins.

We don’t expect perfection. People have bad days, regress at weird times, say clumsy things, and need to try again. Our focus is helping members repair, learn, and feel held by the structure instead of punished by it.

CircleBot, Dashboard & Staff Support

Under the hood, ABDLCircle runs on a custom Discord bot and dashboard designed specifically for communities like this. CircleBot helps staff:

• Handle support tickets for reports, questions, and one-on-one staff conversations.
• Keep logs of joins, leaves, staff actions, voice activity, and more for transparency.
• Use moderation tools like mutes, timeouts, pacify, and bans with proper expiration handling.
• Offer role & identity menus for pronouns, ABDL flavors, friend roles, and DM comfort levels.

The dashboard gives server owners and staff a visual way to configure everything: tickets, logging, roles, safety tools, and more — without juggling a hundred commands.

Safety, Boundaries, and Age Policy

ABDLCircle is an 18+ only community. We do not allow minors, content involving minors, or anything that sexualizes children or childhood. If staff discover that someone is under 18, they are removed. Full stop.

Terms like “little,” “adult baby,” “middle,” “big,” “caregiver,” and similar language describe adult roles, adult dynamics, and adult comfort identities — never real children.

Moderation is trauma-aware but firm: we care very deeply about survivors, neurodivergent folks, and vulnerable members. Rules exist to protect people, not to humiliate them. Staff are expected to use tools gently, explain decisions, and prioritize consent and boundaries over “gotcha” power trips.

Reaching Out & Getting Help

If you need to talk to staff, report a concern, or quietly ask “is this okay?”, you can open a support ticket in the Discord. Tickets are private between you and staff, and are used for:

• Asking questions about rules, roles, and server features.
• Reporting harassment, boundary violations, or safety issues.
• Requesting help navigating conflicts or uncomfortable situations.

Staff can’t replace therapy, crisis lines, or medical care, but we do take your safety and wellbeing seriously. You deserve to feel heard, believed, and respected in the spaces you call home.

New to ABDL and regression? You can read more on our What Is ABDL? page.